I need your [noun] on my [body part], just like this."Body confidence and carnal curiosity are key traits of a sex goddess, and both are on full display when you make a sex tape."Seeing yourselves midact gives you a voyeuristic thrill, almost as though you're peeping into your own bedroom. "You also get to see how your partner is responding and how you look when you're getting off." If you're worried about becoming the next Kim Kardashian, skip the tape and just hook the video camera directly up to a television in your bedroom — without recording — and watch yourselves you're going at it."Talking dirty heightens the whole experience, keeps you both present, and turns you on even more," says Royalle."Plus, men actually like being told what to do in bed because it helps them get it right."First tell him how freakin' good he feels. Try no-fail lines like "You feel so/You make me [adjective]"; "I love it when you [verb] my [body part].") Then you're set to show him the way to send you soaring, with something like, ", almost there."Plus, when he's being aggressive, you have to fully give up the reins, which can help you be even more in the here and now."Instruct your guy to hide behind the door and "surprise" you by taking charge when you get home one night.He can either have his way with you right in the foyer or pull you into the bedroom.
Go for doggie-style so you can both see the action or girl-on-top so you can watch exactly how you move.
And fearless sexual playmates know that unexpectedly intense sexual maneuvers are even more exciting.
"A forceful touch snaps your guy into the moment and heightens every sensation that follows," says Royalle.
If you're feeling like a flirty, girlie tease, put on a white cotton undie set or pale pink lingerie and pull your hair into a ponytail, or don a schoolgirl-like plaid miniskirt with an oxford shirt tied above your navel.
To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace, then add crimson lipstick and nails.
Once he's pleaded his case, release his hands, roll onto your back, and allow him to take over.