Fifteen minutes of dating heaven
But sometimes in real life we want to slow the process down.
Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.9. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be? If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Ha, and yes, I also identify strongly with typical introvert characteristics :) So for myself I actually ended up feeling quite threatened by the prospect of being asked many of the questions - kind of a "yuck, answering this is going to be a big effort and it's going to take a lot out of me" - and I'm curious if the man you mention might respond in any similar ways. For example, I am thinking of going through this exercise with a man I have known now for 15 months who tends to be reticent about talking about his past or feelings. So I know this is a month later, but I just happened on your article now - and actually I'm really interested to know whether you've done this with the man you mention, and if so, how it went? Or you might want to use it to deepen intimacy later.:( Dear Psychology Today: Thank you for this Facebook link, probably aimed at women between the age of 30-45, but I think we both know how completely irritated my husband (or any man) would be if I asked him any single one of these questions.Now, I'm no psychologist, but as an experienced wife and nagger, I can tell you that every single item on this list would elicit the "yes dear, whatever you think" response, followed by the "I have to go to the bathroom" response, in as little as three minutes, and that within the hour, we'd probably be arguing at the top of our lungs. thanks anyway, and good luck with your facebook campaign!
If you want a different outcome, try a different script..