Christian dating how to stay pure
Every couple needs someone who will speak into their relationship.
"A mature couple can serve both the role of accountability partners and mentors who help the couple develop the skills necessary for building a great marriage," says Jeffrey Murphy, marriage mentor and co-author of . We also had a few couples that we spent time with who would prod into our situation." Jason is a worship leader and minister at Regent University in Virginia Beach, Va.
Obviously, much of abstinence is about each person having self-control.
Passion can build inside of you much like stress or tension can, and it's important to control that passion before it controls you.
For some that means avoiding sexually charged movies, books, television and anything else that puts you in the mood.
When our sexual selves are the focus, we lose who we are as whole people.
If we can learn to see ourselves body, soul and spirit, it becomes easier to save your whole self for marriage," she says.
"It is best that you and your date do a lot of outside activities so you can remain focused on each other and not sex," he says. Don't add more temptation by always being alone." Jason Peaks agrees that a relationship out in the open helped him and Danielle stay pure.