Aloofness in dating children post divorce dating
Labeling someone “unattainable” doesn’t have to be a dent in your self-confidence.
His actions — minimal as they were — should speak for themselves. Or he never learned to express himself to a woman in a way that would make her feel good.Jason wanted to be with Julie all the time, and couldn’t understand why she would ever want to be alone or hang out with her girlfriends, without him.Julie had thought she wanted Jason – but she had been more attracted to his previous unavailability than to Jason himself.Sometimes it seems we are intrinsically wired to be attracted to those who aren’t really or readily available – emotionally, physically, financially or spiritually.We want what we can’t have, a cliché that is unfortunately and routinely true.
And lo and behold, Jason broke up with said girlfriend and pursued Julie.